The women of the men who drink know what a great disaster it is for the whole family. Moreover, not only two people who once loved each other suffer, but also their children. All the dreams and plans that were built in the beginning of family life are being destroyed. Usually, after several unsuccessful attempts to force her husband not to drink, a woman makes the only decision that is right in her opinion - to divorce. However, do not rush, because this person next to you was once kind, cheerful and loving, for whom you fell in love with him. Precisely because your husband was not always an alcoholic, it is worth trying to help him. There are many ways to get your husband to stop drinking. But first of all, you need to determine the cause of this disease and eliminate it. This is the only way to be sure that any method of combating alcoholism will give the expected result.
Causes of husband alcoholism
Even when a man who drinks is so drunk that close people and family fall into the background, you should not put an end to that person. If you correctly identify the causes of the disease, addiction can be treated.
Your husband may drink alcohol for the following reasons:
- Do not underestimate the power of inheritance. If a person's father suffered from alcoholism, then the likelihood of this disease is high for him. However, the hereditary factor in itself can not provoke alcoholism, for this it needs a kind of impetus in the form of troubles, family problems, drinking environment.
- Persistent problems in family life. Usually, the wives of men who drank had the same fathers, so they subconsciously chose for themselves a man who was already suffering from addiction or had the preconditions for his appearance. Moreover, such women themselves provoke their husbands to desire alcohol with their constant insults, eternal control. By depriving the husband of the opportunity to be the head of the family, they push him into the abyss of alcoholism, as it is there that most of these men are looking for a way out and security.
- If your boyfriend or husband cannot be fully fulfilled, then this can provoke an addiction. Usually, such people suppress the feeling of dissatisfaction with life with alcohol, as a result, arises a harmful desire for alcohol.
- Often, great grief can be the cause of alcoholism. If the pain of losing a loved one or loved one is too strong, then a man, to suffocate him, may begin to drink alcohol.
- For some men who have an inherited predisposition to alcoholism, the type of people around them is very important. If his friends or co-workers often take alcoholic beverages, then over time he may become addicted and start drinking vodka regularly.
- For some people, alcohol is an opportunity to draw attention to themselves. Usually, such alcoholism is typical for teenagers, but an adult can not be an exception.
- Some men, using alcohol, try to stifle the mental pain that arises from problems of an intimate nature or an incurable disease.
What can a woman do?
If you want to know how to get your husband to stop drinking, then you should stick to the following recommendations:
- You should not make scandals and scold your husband. By shouting and arguing, you will only make the situation worse.
- In the beginning, you need to be patient and stop paying attention to your husband's alcoholism. Once you accept his condition, it will be easier for you to focus and start looking for his cause. Remember everything from the first day of intoxication.
- If the house is always quiet and peaceful, surround your husband with care and attention. If he does not rush home after work, but stays with friends for a drink, let it be warm and cozy at home, it smells like a delicious dinner. This will make your life partner rush home after work.
- Show interest in your spouse's life and work. Involve her invisibly in childcare and household chores. However, it is important to know that repeated and repetitive work will not help your husband give up drinking. Importers it is important that his tasks be interesting and distracting thoughts about alcohol.
- No need to persuade him not to drink on weekends. It is better to organize interesting and rich fun activities for the whole family. Spending time together at an entertainment center or outside will give your husband positive emotions and help you relax without alcohol. As a result, you will not need to force him not to drink, as he himself will appreciate how good life is without alcohol.
- Before convincing your husband to stop drinking, you should reduce to nothing his contacts with friends who drink. If you are thinking about the next holiday, then confuse your spouse with him with a more tempting offer that he can not refuse.
- While persuading believers not to drink, it is worth remembering that some men drink because of lack of hobbies and banal boredom. If you find a hobby or hobby interesting for your spouse, then he himself will stop drinking.
As a rule, you can persuade your husband not to drink and you can use our recommendations with common household intoxication or if a person suffers from the first stage of alcoholism. With the help of our tips, you can turn your spouse's attention to other aspects of life that will allow him or her to forget about addiction. However, if the disease has advanced and reached more serious stages, it will be very difficult to make a man stop drinking. In this case, it is better to seek help from specialists.
Rules of conduct with an alcoholic man
If you want to understand how a woman can make her husband stop drinking without the help of specialists, then start with yourself. Your correct behavior will create fertile ground to overcome addiction:
- Stop patronizing the believers and do not solve the problems that have arisen with him due to his intoxication. Otherwise, your concern will become something common and obligatory for him, and in such a situation he just does not want to change anything. Do not make excuses and apologize for his bad behavior from friends and management. He has to solve these troubles himself, because they appeared for his fault. You do not need to put him to bed and undress him if he comes home drunk as a bedding. Let him sleep everywhere, so that in the morning he can appreciate how drunk he was.
- Often, if a woman tries to force her husband to stop drinking, he blackmails her by leaving the family. Do not pay attention to such threats, because the drinker will simply be afraid to make important cardinal decisions. This is a common blackmail, nothing more.
- Usually, the person who makes you stop drinking so often thinks about the needs of the drinking partner that he forgets about himself. It's not fair. Do not stop taking care of yourself, make it your favorite hobby. This can help boost your spouse's self-esteem. Then the man who will drink will not want to lose his beautiful wife, confidently and can decide for himself to stop drinking.
- If your spouse has severe hangover or withdrawal symptoms, you should not buy him or her a bottle of beer to drink. It is at this point that you have a chance to make him stop drinking. But before you convince your spouse to give up alcohol, offer your help and help him / her get rid of abstinence with home remedies or medication. In this state, a person will agree to any help and will agree to everything.
- When believers are sober, talk seriously about treating alcohol addiction. Do not live up to his promises to quit drinking on his own. Tell him you will only stay with him if he starts to recover from his addiction.
Home treatment
If you have found a way to force your husband not to drink, then you will need help, because the first desire alone is not enough, you need to overcome psychological addiction. The following methods can be used to combat addiction:
- Medication. Even if we are not talking about the method of injection or ampoule, you should consult your doctor before taking pills or special drops for alcoholism. The thing is that every medicine has its own contraindications. Therefore, it is so important to know the condition of the patient's body. Only a doctor will be able to choose an effective medicine that will help her husband quit drinking and will not have a negative effect on the body.
- The toughest coding methods involve inserting an ampoule with a drug under the skin, which either causes intolerance to alcohol or suppresses the feeling of satisfaction from taking an alcoholic beverage. Such coding is performed only by a narcologist with the written consent of the patient. The coding period can be from 6 months to 5 years. The procedure can be performed three times. If the coding is performed with a drug that causes alcohol intolerance, then by taking even a small dose of alcohol, the patient may experience serious health problems (up to death).
- Hypnotic coding is suitable for patients suggested. It is very important that they themselves agree with this procedure and trust the doctor completely. To get a lasting effect, several sessions will be required.
- Popular methods. This includes not only herbal treatment, but also the use of various plots, prayers. For such treatment, you can contact traditional healers or do your own procedures and rituals.
- Sometimes acupuncture is used to cause aversion to alcohol. Due to the influence on bioactive drops, a persistent aversion to alcohol is formed. For treatment, you will need to go through a whole course of sessions. This technique is particularly effective in preventing relapse.
